Bloggers helping bloggers

It's always nice to see women helping other women uplift each other, so that they too can succeed. For me, I always enjoy meeting fellow colleagues, who share an interest in spreading the word about vaginismus and try to help other women overcome this condition. These women spend their days creating a healing environment where …

Update on the Maca Root Powder…

It tastes like shit... No, seriously. I'm not even trying to be dramatic here. I tried using a chocolate banana smoothie recipe that was specifically made to incorporate the Maca Root Powder and I still couldn't even drink half the glass. Ingredients 2/3 cup almond milk 1 banana 1 scoop vanilla protein powder (which I …

My Husband Won’t Fit

My fiance told me about a Netflix TV series called, My Husband Won't Fit. If you can't tell from the title, it's about a woman struggling with vaginismus in her marriage. The sweet thing about my fiance is that, when he noticed I was watching it alone, he said, "Oh, I was hoping we could …

Maca Root Herb

I've been told by multiple sources that the Maca Root Herb helps with low libido. I'm interested to try this, since vaginismus is a big libido killer 😛 Yeah, I know, this is a bit TMI. I probably should have given advanced warning to you. But if you haven't figured out by now that my …

Vaginismus, Weddings & Honeymoons…Oh my!

I have received a few emails asking if I have either overcome or progressed with my vaginismus. Unfortunately, I have not. In fact, one of the main reasons I have not been discussing my vaginismus on here lately has been because 1. I have been SUPER busy and 2. Talking about it only reminds me …

Sexless: A Short Film

Super excited that I found this while googling! It's a short film made by Melissa Rivera and Samantha Shada about a girl with vaginismus. Yay! People are taking action and, from what I can find, this film is getting recognition! The short film is about a fictional relationship between a woman, who has vaginismus, and …

Very Rough Start of My Book

Since I'm going to write this book as a memoir, I have to find a way begin again. Scrapping my previous pages wasn't as heartbreaking as I thought it would be, and I think that's because I knew the story wasn't as powerful as it could be. Here is a very rough draft of a …

Question for you

Would you be more interested in a story about a fictional college girl with vaginismus or a memoir/biography style book about my college experiences and relationships living with vaginismus?

RTL Television video segment

I totally underestimated the time frame of how long it takes a segment to appear on TV. So, since it was so long ago, let me take you back to October when RTL Television flew to my place from New York to shoot a segment for a German news channel on vaginismus. The whole shoot …

Pap Smears & Vaginismus

So, if you have vaginismus, you know how difficult or impossible it is to get a pap smear. In fact, up until the other day, I had never been able to successfully have a pap smear done on me and I'm 27 years old. I was so fortunate to find this amazing gynecologist in my …