Sex Education: A Netflix Original

I have a habit of wanting to watch TV Shows & Movies that challenge me. Sometimes they make me feel uncomfortable, but I began to realize that I enjoy those types of shows. When I saw Netflix's new Original TV Show: Sex Education, I instantly wanted to watch it. Here was my initial logic: It …

My Sad Lady Bits

Vaginismus, Chronic UTI's, Bacterial Vaginosis and now possibly Endometriosis...I've clearly pissed somebody off upstairs.

9 Ways to Help Relieve the Pain

I stumbled upon an interesting and informative article written by Lara Parker, better known as the face of vaginismus 🙂 Her article gives a list of 9 products that can help with painful sex. I've listed a few of the ones she's mentioned in other blogs of mine, but feel free to click on her …

Vaginismus and low sex drive

At first, I thought I was the only one. Like I had a special defect where I was unable to get aroused. For so many years, I have struggled with a low sex drive. After a while, I just assumed that was my personality, a characteristic of me, that I did not want to accept. …

Ohnut product for dysparunia

Just today, a friend of mine sent me a link to a new product called Ohnut. I was pretty excited to see a new product for vaginismus out on the market. Immediately, I clicked on the link, which directed me to their Kickstarter campaign, and read testimonials and the product information. The product is a …

Let’s Talk about Sex

I am so excited to share with all of you that a segment of my fiance and I talking about vaginismus will be featured on RTL Television. For those of you who are unaware of RTL, they are the largest broadcasting company in Germany. The producer approached me and asked if I would be interested …

Can’t sleep: 4am thoughts

Yesterday, I spent some time trying to put things into perspective. Vaginismus is complex, and there are a myriad of issues that can trigger it. Mine is not a physical trigger; therefore, I'm working on discovering why I ended up the way that I did. The issues from my past, anxiety in my youth, schooling, …

Religion Class

I remember being a freshman in high school and just soaking up all of the knowledge that was given to me. History, Science, Religion, Math...well maybe not Math. However, being so impressionable and receiving said knowledge was not always a benefit to me personally. I went to a Catholic school. My parents spent a great …

Vaginismus procedure

Hey everyone! Just an update stating that I have located some doctors, who I feel comfortable with, that can perform the surgery, but I still need your help to make it happen. So far, we've raised almost $200, which makes my heart so happy. I feel like I'm taking steps closer to having a full …

Work, work, work

Some days are more stressful than others. Some days, I think the universe enjoys playing games with me or sending me impossible obstacles to tackle. Some days, I wonder if it's a full moon and people are just crazy. Then, some days, I realize they are just crazy. No full moon needed. Now that that …