Fear of Intimacy and Ways to Overcome it

One thing that many women who suffer from vaginismus fear, or end up being afraid of, is intimacy. I never used to be afraid of intimacy, but after knowingly having vaginismus and experiencing painful sex for almost 2 years, I began to shy away from it. Keep in mind intimacy doesn't mean just sex. Intimacy … Continue reading Fear of Intimacy and Ways to Overcome it

You Dodged a Bullet

You dodged a bullet from the outside in. My instincts would have thoroughly ripped you thin. Hold a grudge against me if you want But eventually I would have only torn you a part *** You dodged a bullet by letting me go Have no regrets by stealing the show The baggage I carry is … Continue reading You Dodged a Bullet

“Working on Us” Week #24 Blog Post

BeckiesMentalMess created this wonderfully unique blogging opportunity that, not only gets the community involved, but also spreads awareness about an important topic : mental health. If you would like to read her "Working on Us - Week #24" post that helped to spark this conversation, click here: https://wordpress.com/read/feeds/66556224/posts/2490771519 Managing Good Mental Health During The Holiday … Continue reading “Working on Us” Week #24 Blog Post


Feel the pressure run through your soul Suffocating the life out of you whole Put on a happy face to mask reality Silently fight back the tears of all the irony You know you’ve been at this place before Don’t pretend you didn’t see it tapping at your front door The only blind sidedness was … Continue reading Irony