A little bit of Inspiration

For those of you who are struggling with something at the moment. Whether it is vaginismus, another medical condition, family problems, mental health, etc., know that you aren't alone and beautiful things come out of difficult situations. Enjoy this little quote on this beautiful Sunday morning 🙂     Featured image credit: rawpixel

Trying to get sexual confidence back?

One question that I do get asked by other women, who struggle with vaginismus, is "How do you feel sexy?" Great question! The truth and harsh reality is, I rarely do. However, there are many ways that you can try to "bring sexy back," as Justin Timberlake would say. A few suggestions that I can …

Just Live.

Death is unexpected and can happen in the blink of an eye. Today, my place of work lost someone who we had talked to not too long ago. He was a funny and lively guy, who would always joke around with me whenever we ran into each other. He was only 57 years old. He …

Feeling that Sunrise

It's crazy how a change of medication can make you go from feeling absolutely hopeless and distant to feeling wonderful and happy again. I finally feel like myself and I truly hope this euphoria lasts. I have been focusing on being more creative, which has been something I had been neglecting for years now due …

Internet bullies

It's always interesting when you come across judgmental people who think your condition is too personal because it deals with your lady parts. Personally, it's people like them who shun women from saying anything at all about this condition. They make these women afraid to speak about it. I've grown to ignore it, but I …

A new approach to overcoming Vaginismus

I wanted to jump on here to give an update on my vaginismus since it's been a hot minute. I sat down and made a 3 min video about this topic, which I will link here; however, it unfortunately cut me off. Maybe it was tired of hearing me ramble too 😛 But for those …

Let’s talk about Lube

I suppose we really just have to get right to it. Lube can be helpful for those who have vaginismus and it is extremely useful for women who suffer from vaginal dryness. It's pretty simple. I think we all know what lube is and what it does. However, what kind of lube really works the …

Top 10 ways to support other bloggers

Today, I wanted to share with all of you 10 ways that you can support those in the blogging community. It's so important to show and give support to our fellow bloggers, and I love seeing people do it! Here are some examples: 1. Share/Reblog other bloggers links: Dream Big, Dream Often is doing this …

Courage is Strength

Courage: n. "strength in the face of pain or grief." All of us are dealing with something in our lives that is painful or difficult, and, because of these struggles, we are discovering who we are. Our struggles and experiences teach us new things and help to define us. This may be depression, anxiety, an …

I feel like I can’t win.

I feel like I'm destroying everything. It's like, whatever I put my hands on, it falls apart into ashes on the ground. It leaves a sour taste in my mouth that I can't shake whenever I see your face turn into despair, yet some days you refuse to accept that you are depressed. Others, you …