Undeserving

You gift us with your tender hearts And stay by us during the toughest parts You grant us the privilege of being by your side And loyally, faithfully remain our true guides You bless us each and every day with your presence And only ever seek our unwavering acceptance You help to dry the bluest …

Book number 2?

To begin a new book or not...that is the question I am constantly asking myself. Instead of giving myself a time frame on when I need to have it done, I'm just going to work on it when I feel inspiration flowing. It's going to be my story. My own personal story of living with …

Stop the abuse!

"What is wrong with this world," is the constant question that I keep asking myself lately. I'm an avid animal lover, and it literally tears apart my heart to see so many videos, posts and pictures of abused, killed or neglected animals all over the internet. What is wrong with people? Truthfully, we are animals …

A sinking ship

Nothing would be more satisfying than to say "Goodbye" to what I have endured for the past three years. It's amazing I have lasted this long with all of the things being done to me. Honestly, I can equate the bullying with that of an emotional abusive relationship. I have even been nice to my …

UK editor shares my story!

I can't believe it! It's so crazy to see your own story on the news! Even BBC news published an article about another girl with vaginismus. Awareness is spreading on this condition and I hope it continues! Read the article below and share the story to keep it circulating 🙂 https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-6234653/Vaginal-condition-makes-sex-feel-like-sandpaper-rubbing-inside.html https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/7407426/sex-feels-like-sandpaper-inside-me-vaginismus/amp/

Explaining the title of my book

So a few people have had a hard time understanding what my book title means. No, it is not meaning some weird form of BDSM. I actually had someone ask that...Simply put, it means that sex is a painful pleasure for those of us who have vaginismus because, despite attempting to enjoy the pleasure it …

Donate to Furever Fosters and save a life!

I'm getting so sick of seeing things on Facebook and in the news about people hurting animals. It's sad that these animals are being tortured, maimed and abused for no other reason than human cruelty and barbarity. We need to be their voice and help these innocent creatures. I created a Facebook page supporting a …

A little bit of Inspiration

For those of you who are struggling with something at the moment. Whether it is vaginismus, another medical condition, family problems, mental health, etc., know that you aren't alone and beautiful things come out of difficult situations. Enjoy this little quote on this beautiful Sunday morning 🙂     Featured image credit: rawpixel

Apologies are often nice, and sometimes needed

Have you ever just wanted an apology from someone so badly that it infiltrates your dreams? Even my subconscious mind is pretending I'm receiving an apology from said person because it is trying to heal itself in the only way that it knows how. The mind is a strange thing... Sometimes it's extremely helpful and …

Courage is Strength

Courage: n. "strength in the face of pain or grief." All of us are dealing with something in our lives that is painful or difficult, and, because of these struggles, we are discovering who we are. Our struggles and experiences teach us new things and help to define us. This may be depression, anxiety, an …