I used to dream about who would be my best friend... I used to dream about my first boyfriend and what he would be like... I used to dream about where and when I'd receive my first kiss... I used to wonder who I'd go to prom with... I used to wonder what kind of … Continue reading I used to dream…
When you ask, "Have any of you ladies tried this?" on a Vaginismus Facebook page and the admins got mad because you didn't say "individuals." Keep in mind others used the word "ladies," but I was the only one called out. Gurrrlllll....I'm pretty sure that last I checked ladies had vaginas.
I have received a few emails asking if I have either overcome or progressed with my vaginismus. Unfortunately, I have not. In fact, one of the main reasons I have not been discussing my vaginismus on here lately has been because 1. I have been SUPER busy and 2. Talking about it only reminds me … Continue reading Vaginismus, Weddings & Honeymoons…Oh my!
Never personally tell a person with vaginismus that you think sex before marriage is a sin, unless you wish to make them even more depressed than they already are. Just a word of advice from the person, who was finally having a decent day and then got sideswiped by that random message. Just try to … Continue reading Note:
It's difficult to put into words the horrific feelings and relentless emotions I feel daily. Right when you think things are going well, that feeling of hoplessness catches you off guard. You fall back into your own distant bubble, away from everyone else, because you perceive yourself as a burden to others. Who wants to … Continue reading Resilience
Life isn't always fair. Sometimes you don't get the congratulations you want. Sometimes you don't get the praise you feel like you deserve. Sometimes you don't get the support you need. That's why it's important to give yourself the love, praise and support you need when others simply can't or don't know how. My whole … Continue reading Getting back into writing
It's difficult to put into words the horrific feelings and relentless emotions I feel daily. Right when you think things are going well, that feeling of hoplessness catches you off guard. You fall back into your own distant bubble, away from everyone else, because you perceive yourself as a burden to others. Who wants to … Continue reading The Troubles I’ve Been Facing
