“I needed to lose you to find me”

I'm ADDICTED to this song! 💔 Lose You to Love Me --- video link I'm pretty sure my dog is sick of hearing me listening/singing this song. Poor buddy. This song gives me so many feels. I certainly understand her pain, and I think many of us have gone through similar relationship situations. My second …

What enriches your life?

A Youtuber I follow recently asked the question, "What enriches your life and why?" Her question really got me thinking. I sat down, and without much thought or planning, I just wrote. I was surprised by my answer, but was proud of myself for its honesty. This simple question turned out to mean so much …

Goodbye Baby Victoria!

I’m so excited to take a step forward into a new chapter in my life once the wedding is over. I’m taking this wedding as, not only an end of the old me, but also a brand-new beginning that is bigger and brighter than ever. People’s true colors have emerged as my fiancé and I …

How has Vaginismus impacted my relationships???

This was a question I was asked from my Facebook group before I went on my hiatus... Yes, I have gone blackout on Facebook and texting. I think when you faint during your dress fitting, begin getting sick and get really depressed all because of the people around you treating you like crap in regards …

Fun times at Ridgemont High!

Some days start out like this... and, ironically, end like this... So, how do you cope with these drastic emotional changes created by those around you? Well, you do this of course... Is it healthy? No. But is it helpful? Yes.

Breathing exercise

Sharing this link my therapist gave me on a breathing technique. Not only will it help with anxiety, but I found that it actually helps my PC muscles relax. We definitely don't use the full capacity of our lungs, so our brains are not getting as much oxygen as they could. Also, apparently the Navy …

The Archer

When a song is super relatable to you... We've all been there, more than once. You know what I mean? There's a song you hear on the radio and you stop what you are doing and go, "Holy hell! That song is about me!" We all know it's not, but sometimes songs are scarily accurate …